Did you wake up today with your head spinning? Did you have a headache of thoughts, full of all kinds of things that stress you out? Be calm, take a breath, close your eyes for just a sec, and take it one step at a time. If you want to talk about it because it makes you feel better, I'm here. I got you, forever and always.
Are you worried about the kids, school, how they're doing there, and if they're being influenced in all of the right ways? You're raising them well, and you teach them to set the bar high. You're not right there with them, but you're there in spirit, in their hearts and minds. It's okay. If you want to talk about it because it makes you feel better, I'm here.
I got you, forever and always. Do you feel like your life is more chaotic than it is peaceful? Is peace what you really need and want because you feel like you're always on the brink of having a physical and mental breakdown? There are bits of peace in every day, we just have to focus on them more than we focus on the chaos. If you want to talk about it because it makes you feel better, I'm here. I got you, forever and always. Is your schedule of school or work making you unhappy or making you feel crazy? It will get better; it always does. If you think about that, it will feel easier. If it can't get easier, know that school will eventually come to an end and an unhappy job can be changed. I've said it once and I'll say it again - we are never stuck in anything. "Stuck" is an awful, lying word.
If you want to talk about it because it makes you feel better, I'm here. I got you, forever and always. Is your relationship not what it used to be? Are you wondering if you should stay put and continue to be unhappy, or if you should close that door to open a new one that may be absolutely wonderful? There are risks and benefits to either decision. They may be equal or one may outweigh the other. Sometimes you literally have to jot them down and compare them to see it all with your own eyes. Black ink works best.
If you want to talk about it because it makes you feel better, I'm here. I got you, forever and always. Are you going through something health-related? Does your stomach burn constantly? Do you get dizzy every day?
Are you too tired to get out of bed even after a night of good sleep?
Do you live with constant headaches or always have a pit in your stomach?
Are you anxious, sad or nervous all the time? It could be depression or anxiety or it could be something entirely different. Regardless, if you want to talk about it because it makes you feel better, I'm here. I got you, forever and always. Do you feel like your life is a monotonous routine that keeps getting more complicated instead of easier, and that you're beyond miserable but it's so hectic that the "interesting" factor is alive and well?
Is it just not what you want?
Is what you want somewhere else, with someone else?
Is everything you do for others, and never for yourself?
Do you feel trapped and like it's all really spiraling out of control? Do you feel like you've lost your grip on it?
Really we have control over quite a bit of it and we have to take hold of that.
We need to stop playing the victim role because it gets us nowhere except the exact same place. There's a stress-free way to do it, we simply have to try. If you want to talk about it because it makes you feel better, I'm here. I got you, forever and always. Have you always felt insignificant, like nothing you ever do is good enough, or like you'll never catch a break? You are significant...to the right people.
You are good enough...to the right people. Find them.
You will catch a break when you finally decide you want to.
I've been there, I'm good at figuring things out and I'm more than happy to help. If you want to talk about it because it makes you feel better, I'm here. I got you, forever and always. Did you have a day, a week, a month or a year that was so smooth, happy and perfect that you want to share all that glory and have someone smile and feel the happiness and excitement with you?
I'm your girl, so tell me about it.
Happiness and excitement are contagious, and I love that kind of germ.
If you want to talk about it because it makes you feel even better than you already do, I'm here. I got you, forever and always.
-Sher